A Mentor I Only Met for Five Minutes

Can someone you’ve only met briefly be a mentor?

I was saddened to hear about the recent passing of Dr. Jim Shaddix. In addition to a family man, he was a pastor, a seminary professor, and a mentor to many. I would dare say he was one of my mentors, even though I only met him once for five minutes. 

The ministry of Dr. Shaddix became visible to me during a low point in my life in 2013. I was forced out of my first pastorate just before the four-year mark. Weeks stretched into months as I searched for a new place to serve through an endless supply of resumes. I’m embarrassed to admit it now, but one of those resumes landed at Riverside Baptist Church in Denver, Colorado – a church that Jim Shaddix had just served as pastor and a church that was way beyond my abilities. He went on to teach at the Southeastern Baptist Theological Seminary and I was intrigued by a pastor turned professor.

God was gracious and a door opened up for me to serve another church in Kentucky, just a few hours from where we currently lived. As I worked to hone my preaching craft, I came across Dr. Shaddix’s book, Power in the Pulpit, and I devoured it. Years later, I was asked to teach some students of my own through Southeastern Seminary’s extension program, and I was pleased to see that Dr. Shaddix was the principal teacher of that course. I enjoyed previewing his lecture videos before I share them with my class.

In 2023, I was pastoring my current church in Indianapolis, IN and I had the urge to offer my own course in sermon preparation and delivery. I had several men in the church, and two young staff pastors, who were eager for some instruction on preaching. I reached out to Dr. Shaddix by email to ask for his permission to include his materials in the course. Even though I wasn’t student at Southeastern Seminary, and he had never heard of my ministry (I’m sure of it), he sent me the kindest message in return. He gave me his permission as well as an offer to help anyway he could in the days ahead. I was proud to share his note with my Preaching Cohort during our first meeting – a note from a man that I considered as a mentor even though we had never met.

In 2024, the Southern Baptist Convention came to Indianapolis, IN and I was happy to see that Jim Shaddix was on the schedule to preach at the Pastor’s Conference. I don’t always get to listen to the preachers at the conference, but I made it point to be in my seat with my notebook open during his sermon. During a later, I waited in a long line at the Southeastern Seminary booth in the Exhibit Hall to meet him personally. I expressed gratitude for his recent sermon and for the influence of his book. He listened graciously and offered some encouragement. At one point, we were interrupted by another well-known preacher with an urgent message, but Dr. Shaddix finished our brief visit, and I was glad.

Mentoring can come in different ways. Sometimes it comes through a close, personal friendship. Sometimes mentoring a scheduled and structured and sometimes it happens organically. It can even happen from a distance as seasoned models and expert practitioners share their wisdom through all the channels we have today.

Here’s a link to Dr. Jim Shaddix’s obituary: https://www.brightfunerals.com/obituaries/Dr-Jim-L-Shaddix?obId=35207262

Why I’m All in for Vacation Bible School

I’m all in for Vacation Bible School and here’s why.

I’m all in for Vacation Bible School at my church. We have a great group of volunteers, but I love being a part of the opening and closing rallies and helping out any way I can. I look forward to greeting parents as they drop their kids off and giving out high-fives to those same kids as they make their way down the hall. This year, I get to share the gospel with the children at a few key points throughout the week.

Here are my top 5 reasons why I’m all in for VBS:

  1. VBS is fun. I know that it takes a lot of hard work and advanced planning to put a VBS together. The daily schedule can be a little tiring, but it’s a good kind of tiring. The music is upbeat, the decorations are colorful, and the kid’s smiles are fantastic. Add in some crafts, snacks, and games, and you have a recipe for a memorable time.
  2. VBS encourages the church to focus on the next generation. There are all kinds of activities that can happen in church, but you can’t have VBS without children. Children and youth are the future and they need to be a priority.
  3. VBS encourages the church to look outward. Parents are always looking for things for their children to do during the summer months when school is not in session. VBS is a natural connection point that is easy to share with the community. These factors and more, make it easy for the church to use VBS as an outreach opportunity.
  4. VBS encourages the church to think about the gospel. The daily schedule usually includes a lot of activities. But a full schedule is an invitation to think about what kinds of messages are truly important. In other words, what do we really want to pass on to our children? The good news about Jesus Christ – his death, burial, and resurrection for us – is the best message of all and VBS an ideal time to share it.
  5. VBS brings out the best in our church volunteers. All kinds of people can volunteer at VBS. People who enjoy working with their hands and building can help. People that like to teach and organize can be a part. People that enjoy music and crafts can do their part. Even athletic types can serve.

These are my top 5 reasons why I’m all in for Vacation Bible School. Feel free to share your own reasons why you love to participate in VBS in the comment section below.

Why I Love VBS

Here’s why I love VBS…

The church where I serve is getting ready to put on VBS this next week (That’s Vacation Bible School for the uninformed). I’ve been participating in VBS since I was a child and I love it. Here are 5 reasons why.

  1. VBS brings the church together around something positive. Summers tend to be a down time in church life when people are pursing other interests. But the weeks leading up to VBS are full of energy and excitement. People come together to get the job done.
  2. VBS forces the church to focus on the next generation. There are all kinds of activities that can happen in church, but you can’t have VBS without children. Children and youth are the future and they need to be prioritized.
  3. VBS allows the church to look outward. VBS is a simple, nonthreatening introduction. It’s so easy to invite families from the community to participate, even a kid can do it.
  4. VBS encourages the church to think about the gospel. VBS is full of a lot of actives , but it’s always organized around a central message – the good news of Jesus Christ. VBS provides church leaders with an opportunity to think creatively and succinctly about the message they want to share.
  5. VBS requires a variety of volunteers. People who enjoy working with their hands and building can help. People that like to teach and organize can help. People that enjoy music and crafts can help. Even athletic types can help with VBS. Men, women, teenagers, and senior can all find their place volunteering at a Vacation Bible School.

These are my top 5 reasons why I love VBS. I know there are more reasons and I’m sure you have your own. Please feel free to share the reasons why you love VBS in the comment section below.

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